Acat owner has gone viral for her hilarious take on how men and women pet their fluffy friends.

In a video shared by Sarah Kobuaritsch (@_russianblue_stars), she showcased the stark difference between her gentle petting style and her partner’s more rough-and-tumble approach with their Russian blue cat.

The video, which has racked up 10.8 million views and 284,848 likes, perfectly captures this amusing contrast. The caption playfully reads: “She will take all the pets. Which one are you?” accompanied by text overlaying the video: “When mom pets vs when dad pets.”

In the clip, Kobuaritsch tenderly strokes her cat’s head with her fingertip, exuding calm and care. Then, the scene shifts to her partner, who energetically rubs the cat’s face and body with gusto. The difference is undeniable—and it has Instagram users in stitches.

Comments flooded in as viewers identified with either the “mom” or “dad” camp of petting styles.

“So True,” said one viewer. “I guess I’m dad then,” one viewer admitted, while another joked: “That’s why Dad gets bit and Mom gets snuggles.”

Janice chimed in and said: “I always tell my husband, she’s a cat, not a dog!!!!”

Another user, DeeDee, humorously noted: “This is accurate and my husband is STILL the favorite one.”

According to the charity Cats Protection, petting a cat gently is generally the best approach. Cats have a preference for being stroked in areas like the top of their heads and under the chin, where scent glands are located, making them feel comfortable and secure.

Stock photo of cat.
A file photo of a cat. The cat mom shared her opinion on how feline petters fall into two camps. YU SUN/ISTOCK / GETTY IMAGES PLUS

Abrupt or rough petting, while it might be well-meaning, can sometimes overstimulate a cat, leading to an unexpected bite or scratch.

The star of this viral video is a Russian blue cat. According to Purina, the breed is known for its striking silvery-blue coat and vivid green eyes. They are admired for their affectionate and loyal nature, often forming strong bonds with their owners, which is demonstrated by the cat’s comfortable temperament with both her mom and dad.